In everyone, there is a fight. Around everyone there is a fight. When I look at things honestly, the fight within and without me is much my doing. I'm not saying that I'm a victim by any means. I know that the challenges I've faced in my life are partially because of wrong decisions on my part. I am not going to begin to blame my present on my past. We all have pasts, don't we? Some people are able to rise above it better and some rise in their eyes and fail in their heart. Guess that's been my way. Everyone has a decision to make in their life, are you going to fight or are you going to lay down and let whatever happens happen?
There have been a lot of changes in my life, personally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically in the last year and a half. Through a tragedy of stinking thinking on my part and the worst decisions I've ever made in my entire existence, I've never come out on the other side with a perspective as clear as I now have. There are so many uncertainties in my life, but the one certainty I DO know is one word...GRACE.
What is grace? I know that grace is the unmerited favor of God. Yeah, I know it. I live in it. I'm every thankful for it. Recently, I had been thinking about things in my life. Once again, I'm at a crossroads and I must make some very important decisions. I'm not good with change and I'm not patient either, so these decisions and steps I must make are heart-wrenching and just zap me emotionally. So I've been doing a lot of praying and searching for wisdom. In the middle of my soul-searching, I received an invitation to a Christian event from someone so far in my past I was blown away. I struggled with whether or not I should go, but I realized that the struggle meant that I should go...so I did. It was no mistake that I needed to be there.
I drove to this place that took me about an hour or more from my house. Not a problem, it just gave me some alone time that I needed. I got there, parked my car, found a seat and got ready for a Word. Nothing could have prepared me for that moment in time. Everything I had been praying for, all the issues I had been struggling with, all the earthly things that my heart was weighed down with and my mind bogged down in were all diminishing. I was given permission to let it all go and leave it to never return to it again. Everything I had every wished, everything I had ever pondered, all the "reasons" and all the words and stories and memories and all the crap were all shed that very night never to speak of them again. It was the most liberating moment of my life.
There are so many people out there that truly believe that we should pick apart and analyze who we are and why we would do the things we do, the reasons behind the reasons behind the reasons...God says drop it, leave it, and never return to it. Simple as that??? Really? Yep! For me, it was just that simple. So what do you do when you know it's time to let it go and let God be your reason from that point on? I had to obey. And what's funny about it is that the moment I decided to let God work in my life completely, "grave diggers" came to resurrect my past and throw it out into the day to eager ears salivating for a juicy story. People rolled around in my dead bones as alligators would roll in the water after getting their prey. It was as ugly as my transgressions. My accuser thought I would crumble and make the same mistakes, but my Word was clear and it gave me the strength to endure and overcome. GRACE...
Grace to stand. Grace to stay. Grace to keep my head up. Grace to accept the grace being given to me DESPITE the whirling winds of accusations, words, disgraces, and transgressions. I'm not perfect. I'm far from that. I'm forgiven. I've found favor. And though I'm undeserving, I walk in His love though I've lost the love of others. He is my Strength and my Deliverer, and yes, He loves me...oh how He loves me!
So here's my challenge...everyone has a past. Everyone has made mistakes, done wrong things, hurt others because of these things....why not give it to God and never take it back again? Don't ever go back, don't ever speak of it again and just move forward. He forgives as far as the East is from the West...they never intersect! I challenge you to step away from your past so that God can take you, change you, make you, and love and bless you. I made a vow to my spiritual mother. She held me in her arms, looked me square in the face and told me to never go back and I looked at her for the first time in 17 years and said, "never ever will I." I'm still walking in that Word today...I challenge you to do the same. I won't go back, can't go back to the way it used to be..."
Thursday, January 26, 2012
Monday, November 29, 2010
Snow globe
Clearing my mind of so many things running through it, I lay on my bed and take slow and deliberate breaths in and breaths out. Inhale, exhale...inhale, exhale...once again very sloooooooooooowwwwwwwww. Ahhhhh. Much better. The day is dripping off of me like honey off a dipping stick. I have so many things on my plate right now and most of them revolve around work these days.
To make a long story short, I'm trying to manage my office and begin my strategy for a targeted marketing report when my assistant gives her 2-week notice. She came to me with tears in her eyes saying she couldn't juggle the job and her personal issues at home. Sigh. I got a little insight of some of what she was talking about from her a few weeks ago, and to be honest, I kinda thought it was going to happen, but you know how it goes...you don't think it's really going to happen. But it did. I found myself sitting back in my chair behind my desk just looking at her and listening to her explain why she's giving me her notice. I felt the words forming in my mouth and I even thought I saw a speech bubble form over my head, but I remained silent with my hands folded on my lap until she finished. What can I say to someone telling me that the job was too much pressure? Too stressful? I had nothing to say that I could say. I told her I was sorry she felt that way and that I hoped things would settle down in her life soon. Again...SIGH.
After she walked out of my office. I looked over at the candle I'd lit that morning. I light a candle every day. Not only does it make the office smell nice, but it helps me feel at ease and makes my day seem nicer than usual. I let myself just sink into my chair and let my mind wander. It's the day before Thanksgiving and I'm getting ready to go away for the holiday. What am I going to wear? What am I packing? Is it going to be cold over there? Will it snow? I'm just thinking thinking thinking about what I need to do, but then the thought of snow just overtakes my head. A warm smile brushes over my lips and I'm in another place daydreaming of a beautiful landscape with sleeping trees, naked with only white knotty bark and tree limbs bared. Along the side of the road is a drop off where you can see a little town in the valley down below.
Down in this valley is a quaint white church with a tall steeple and a few big barns with tall silos. You can see the cows, which look like little black, brown, and black and white dots gathering by the side of the silo. The hillside is just bare but the rolling hills remember the plush green grass from the previous season and it just lays in wait for the freshly falling snow. It's just beautiful. It's just what I need. It's exactly what I want to see...this kind of peaceful beauty.
After about a five minute reprieve, I took myself back to the day at hand with my candle burning and my thoughts still half way on my daydream. I plugged away at figures, made a lot of calls, got more calls than I wanted, went out on a few business meetings and came back to work after a bite for lunch. It had been a really productive day and I'm was so excited to get home, get packed, and get ready to get on the road.
Just the week before, I spent a day with my bff at my mom's house making her Thanksgiving dinner. She invited her bff to dinner and we all had a really nice time. Me, my BFF, Mom, her BFF, Chloe, and her Zoe. It was a wonderful day. Thankful for a great time, wonderful food, and quality time spent with my mom, my BFF helped me make my mom's day special...just what I had wanted. :)
I got home, had dinner, packed my bags and went to bed. I felt like it was the night before Christmas. I was so excited to get away for a few days! Morning came and I was ready to go. Chloe's meds? Check. A list of things she needs for the next few days? Check. Cell phone? Check. Work cell phone? Check. Bags packed, shoes, scarves, my most favorite pair of jeans on and I'm ready for a 5 hour trip away for lots of good home cooking, family, friends, and football!
The trip went without a glitch. Traffic was wonderful and the time flew by. We got there safe, sound, and hungry. The house smelled WONDERFUL. The turkey was getting it's oven tan while the stuffing in it was just calling my name! OMG it was just amazing...EVERYTHING was just amazing. The air was crisp and cold and it was everything that I thought a Thanksgiving should be in this region. I found myself making up silly songs from nothing, laughing at silly things, and for once in a very long time, I felt completely happy. I didn't think about anything else...nothing was outstanding, nothing was pending, I was just so content and everything I looked at and every place I went and everyone I spent time with did nothing less than put a smile on my face.
After 3 days and 2 nights, it was time to pack up and come home. As I was dreading the trip home because it would be too quick and I would soon go back to the drama that's home, the drive and frustration was broken up by snowflakes. There we are, driving down the highway and the snow falling down...not enough to cover the road, but enough to make it just beautiful around us. Trees along the roadside, barns and houses, tractors and fields. It was all so nostalgic and serene. I looked around to the beautiful landscape that surround me and suddenly felt like I was the center of a snow globe and someone just shook it up to make the snow whirl around me.
I could go on about how the afternoon evolved back at home, but I'm still basking in the wonderful time I had and the sweet memories made...who wants to ruin it with reality? I sure don't!
To make a long story short, I'm trying to manage my office and begin my strategy for a targeted marketing report when my assistant gives her 2-week notice. She came to me with tears in her eyes saying she couldn't juggle the job and her personal issues at home. Sigh. I got a little insight of some of what she was talking about from her a few weeks ago, and to be honest, I kinda thought it was going to happen, but you know how it goes...you don't think it's really going to happen. But it did. I found myself sitting back in my chair behind my desk just looking at her and listening to her explain why she's giving me her notice. I felt the words forming in my mouth and I even thought I saw a speech bubble form over my head, but I remained silent with my hands folded on my lap until she finished. What can I say to someone telling me that the job was too much pressure? Too stressful? I had nothing to say that I could say. I told her I was sorry she felt that way and that I hoped things would settle down in her life soon. Again...SIGH.
After she walked out of my office. I looked over at the candle I'd lit that morning. I light a candle every day. Not only does it make the office smell nice, but it helps me feel at ease and makes my day seem nicer than usual. I let myself just sink into my chair and let my mind wander. It's the day before Thanksgiving and I'm getting ready to go away for the holiday. What am I going to wear? What am I packing? Is it going to be cold over there? Will it snow? I'm just thinking thinking thinking about what I need to do, but then the thought of snow just overtakes my head. A warm smile brushes over my lips and I'm in another place daydreaming of a beautiful landscape with sleeping trees, naked with only white knotty bark and tree limbs bared. Along the side of the road is a drop off where you can see a little town in the valley down below.
Down in this valley is a quaint white church with a tall steeple and a few big barns with tall silos. You can see the cows, which look like little black, brown, and black and white dots gathering by the side of the silo. The hillside is just bare but the rolling hills remember the plush green grass from the previous season and it just lays in wait for the freshly falling snow. It's just beautiful. It's just what I need. It's exactly what I want to see...this kind of peaceful beauty.
After about a five minute reprieve, I took myself back to the day at hand with my candle burning and my thoughts still half way on my daydream. I plugged away at figures, made a lot of calls, got more calls than I wanted, went out on a few business meetings and came back to work after a bite for lunch. It had been a really productive day and I'm was so excited to get home, get packed, and get ready to get on the road.
Just the week before, I spent a day with my bff at my mom's house making her Thanksgiving dinner. She invited her bff to dinner and we all had a really nice time. Me, my BFF, Mom, her BFF, Chloe, and her Zoe. It was a wonderful day. Thankful for a great time, wonderful food, and quality time spent with my mom, my BFF helped me make my mom's day special...just what I had wanted. :)
I got home, had dinner, packed my bags and went to bed. I felt like it was the night before Christmas. I was so excited to get away for a few days! Morning came and I was ready to go. Chloe's meds? Check. A list of things she needs for the next few days? Check. Cell phone? Check. Work cell phone? Check. Bags packed, shoes, scarves, my most favorite pair of jeans on and I'm ready for a 5 hour trip away for lots of good home cooking, family, friends, and football!
The trip went without a glitch. Traffic was wonderful and the time flew by. We got there safe, sound, and hungry. The house smelled WONDERFUL. The turkey was getting it's oven tan while the stuffing in it was just calling my name! OMG it was just amazing...EVERYTHING was just amazing. The air was crisp and cold and it was everything that I thought a Thanksgiving should be in this region. I found myself making up silly songs from nothing, laughing at silly things, and for once in a very long time, I felt completely happy. I didn't think about anything else...nothing was outstanding, nothing was pending, I was just so content and everything I looked at and every place I went and everyone I spent time with did nothing less than put a smile on my face.
After 3 days and 2 nights, it was time to pack up and come home. As I was dreading the trip home because it would be too quick and I would soon go back to the drama that's home, the drive and frustration was broken up by snowflakes. There we are, driving down the highway and the snow falling down...not enough to cover the road, but enough to make it just beautiful around us. Trees along the roadside, barns and houses, tractors and fields. It was all so nostalgic and serene. I looked around to the beautiful landscape that surround me and suddenly felt like I was the center of a snow globe and someone just shook it up to make the snow whirl around me.
I could go on about how the afternoon evolved back at home, but I'm still basking in the wonderful time I had and the sweet memories made...who wants to ruin it with reality? I sure don't!
Sunday, November 7, 2010
After a very long week at work, I sit here enjoying my time on the sofa with the football teams running across the television. Two days and one night of very important business meetings out of town and I feel overwhelmed with things that are on my to do list. Every time I get some things crossed out, I put on 5 more things. This is to be expected though. It's what they call the learning curve. I'm overwhelmed, but I'm not distraught. This is a good stress...I'm definitely on the right track. I have said it before, I'll say it again, I'm blessed. In so many ways, I'm blessed.
I find myself just sinking into the couch and wishing myself into the cushions. It feels so good to relax. So here's my week... I'm trying to learn the ropes and at the same time, teach my newly hired assistant the ropes too. It's been wonderful having her there, she helps me with the other things so I can get my work done. Monday and Tuesday were spent getting prepared for the business meetings. Wednesday morning at 4:30am, I'm up stressing over whether or not I'll be on time. I get up, get ready, get packed, and get coffee at Starbucks...ahhhhhhhhhhh Pumpkin spice latte. Venti, xtra hot, quad shot, no foam, xtra spice, no whip latte from heaven's barrista to my own lips. EXACTLY what I needed that morning. The morning was dark and chilled. Again, it was perfect for my morning coffee. It took 2 1/2 hours to get there in traffic. Not too bad for a drive from my place to Gaithersburg. Actually early by an hour, I went to Panera where I enjoyed a breakfast sandwich and, yes, another pumpkin spice latte (that was really good too). I went back to the hotel where I tried to check in, but it was too early so I left my things in the trunk and grabbed another coffee and went into the meeting room. Begin the note-taking process. I really thought the meetings that day were good. We took a break for lunch (yummy) and then back to more meetings. That night Corporate took us to one of my favs...CHEVY'S for dinner. It was so good! After dinner, some of us went to another place for some fun. We went to Dogfish Head and had a REALLY good time with my friends and their spouses and I got in before midnight.
My hotel suite was really nice. Three large televisions, a full kitchen, 2 bedrooms and a walk-in shower. I slept so well that when I woke, I actually forgot where I was! I got up early, got my shower, got dressed and packed to go and then headed out for the complimentary breakfast spread they put out. Usually, hotel breakfasts are pretty nasty, but this was really good and I really enjoyed it. Two more cups of coffee and I went into the meetings again. Of course, the emergency phone that has stayed SILENT decided to ring and I had to deal with a work-related emergency for almost 2 hours. Fire extinguished and problem solved...back to the meetings and another coffee (now they brought in freshly baked cookies and brownies....ummmm, yeah I had some! Oatmeal raisin was the best, brownie was second best. After a round table and a small presentation, we all got to go home around 4:30pm. It was raining cat's and dogs so I wasn't really excited about driving on the beltway, but I did. Right about to get to the bridge, my car decided to send me a warning ding telling me that I was about to run out of gas. So I'm driving, it's wall-to-wall brake lights, idiot drivers all around me, and no gas in my tank. As a matter of fact, I wasn't even sure I had an exit to stop to get gas. Luckily, "Samantha," my GPS told me where I could go. It took me 20 minutes to get 1/2 a block with the traffic and the rain. I HATE DRIVING IN THE RAIN OVER THE BRIDGE!!! I got gas and I had to do another 20 minutes for the 1/2 block once again only going in the other direction. Now gassed up, I am feeling more confidant about getting over the bridge. Traffic everywhere and better yet, the trucks were playing bully with the cars, I was white-knuckling it all the way to my exit. Got there and for some reason, it took so long to get off the ramp that I actually got disoriented and didn't know where I was for a short while. Has that ever happened to you? It's kinda strange. For a second, I was almost scared I'd missed something and went the wrong way. I drove to my familiar routes and found my way down the roads that pointed me to my house. I was so excited to see my driveway!
After a very productive 2 days in business meeting, I was fresh for getting back to work and "workin" it. There were 48 voice mails on the main phone and I had 18 on my personal line. Sighhhhhhh. My goal, trying to get payroll for my staff done by 2pm. There were so many things I had to do to catch up before I got payroll done that it was almost 4pm when I got everything uploaded to my accountant. Sighhhhhh again. I am convinced that this Friday, it's going to be done early...maybe a day early??? A noble goal.
It was a great time to get away for a day or so. So I drove out of town and enjoyed time with friends and family. We had a good time cooking, playing with the new baby (she's almost a year now) and just fellowshipping with everyone. I had a good time. I was able to leave my home frustrations behind and forget it so to speak...that is till one of my frustrations decided to text me before 7am. That's a story that I may never share online, but still one that burdens me nonetheless. I guess I can say this...people are like a box of chocolates...you never know what you're gonna get AND when you get it, it may be totally different than you thought it to be despite the few bites you've experienced already.
I'm home now and the biggest decision to be had now is what's for dinner. Chinese or Mexican??? Who knows what I'll choose...it's going to be good regardless...it's going to be better because I'm home where I'm safe and with the one(s) I love.
I find myself just sinking into the couch and wishing myself into the cushions. It feels so good to relax. So here's my week... I'm trying to learn the ropes and at the same time, teach my newly hired assistant the ropes too. It's been wonderful having her there, she helps me with the other things so I can get my work done. Monday and Tuesday were spent getting prepared for the business meetings. Wednesday morning at 4:30am, I'm up stressing over whether or not I'll be on time. I get up, get ready, get packed, and get coffee at Starbucks...ahhhhhhhhhhh Pumpkin spice latte. Venti, xtra hot, quad shot, no foam, xtra spice, no whip latte from heaven's barrista to my own lips. EXACTLY what I needed that morning. The morning was dark and chilled. Again, it was perfect for my morning coffee. It took 2 1/2 hours to get there in traffic. Not too bad for a drive from my place to Gaithersburg. Actually early by an hour, I went to Panera where I enjoyed a breakfast sandwich and, yes, another pumpkin spice latte (that was really good too). I went back to the hotel where I tried to check in, but it was too early so I left my things in the trunk and grabbed another coffee and went into the meeting room. Begin the note-taking process. I really thought the meetings that day were good. We took a break for lunch (yummy) and then back to more meetings. That night Corporate took us to one of my favs...CHEVY'S for dinner. It was so good! After dinner, some of us went to another place for some fun. We went to Dogfish Head and had a REALLY good time with my friends and their spouses and I got in before midnight.
My hotel suite was really nice. Three large televisions, a full kitchen, 2 bedrooms and a walk-in shower. I slept so well that when I woke, I actually forgot where I was! I got up early, got my shower, got dressed and packed to go and then headed out for the complimentary breakfast spread they put out. Usually, hotel breakfasts are pretty nasty, but this was really good and I really enjoyed it. Two more cups of coffee and I went into the meetings again. Of course, the emergency phone that has stayed SILENT decided to ring and I had to deal with a work-related emergency for almost 2 hours. Fire extinguished and problem solved...back to the meetings and another coffee (now they brought in freshly baked cookies and brownies....ummmm, yeah I had some! Oatmeal raisin was the best, brownie was second best. After a round table and a small presentation, we all got to go home around 4:30pm. It was raining cat's and dogs so I wasn't really excited about driving on the beltway, but I did. Right about to get to the bridge, my car decided to send me a warning ding telling me that I was about to run out of gas. So I'm driving, it's wall-to-wall brake lights, idiot drivers all around me, and no gas in my tank. As a matter of fact, I wasn't even sure I had an exit to stop to get gas. Luckily, "Samantha," my GPS told me where I could go. It took me 20 minutes to get 1/2 a block with the traffic and the rain. I HATE DRIVING IN THE RAIN OVER THE BRIDGE!!! I got gas and I had to do another 20 minutes for the 1/2 block once again only going in the other direction. Now gassed up, I am feeling more confidant about getting over the bridge. Traffic everywhere and better yet, the trucks were playing bully with the cars, I was white-knuckling it all the way to my exit. Got there and for some reason, it took so long to get off the ramp that I actually got disoriented and didn't know where I was for a short while. Has that ever happened to you? It's kinda strange. For a second, I was almost scared I'd missed something and went the wrong way. I drove to my familiar routes and found my way down the roads that pointed me to my house. I was so excited to see my driveway!
After a very productive 2 days in business meeting, I was fresh for getting back to work and "workin" it. There were 48 voice mails on the main phone and I had 18 on my personal line. Sighhhhhhh. My goal, trying to get payroll for my staff done by 2pm. There were so many things I had to do to catch up before I got payroll done that it was almost 4pm when I got everything uploaded to my accountant. Sighhhhhh again. I am convinced that this Friday, it's going to be done early...maybe a day early??? A noble goal.
It was a great time to get away for a day or so. So I drove out of town and enjoyed time with friends and family. We had a good time cooking, playing with the new baby (she's almost a year now) and just fellowshipping with everyone. I had a good time. I was able to leave my home frustrations behind and forget it so to speak...that is till one of my frustrations decided to text me before 7am. That's a story that I may never share online, but still one that burdens me nonetheless. I guess I can say this...people are like a box of chocolates...you never know what you're gonna get AND when you get it, it may be totally different than you thought it to be despite the few bites you've experienced already.
I'm home now and the biggest decision to be had now is what's for dinner. Chinese or Mexican??? Who knows what I'll choose...it's going to be good regardless...it's going to be better because I'm home where I'm safe and with the one(s) I love.
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
Tapestry of Life
The day is gray and gloomy, but the colors are bright and vivid in my area. Cobalt, lime, orange...there's a beautiful spray of fall and other vibrant colors all around me. It's the dying of the old giving way to the birth of the new, but the transition is lengthy and it seems so desolate and lonely while transitioning, but nonetheless, it's a beautiful transformation.
Gone is the Spring where the colors were bright and new and crisp. The heat of the Summer is gone and now the changing of the leaves gives way to burned oranges and yellow-greens and rusts and sienna. All these beautiful colors will all burst for a short time to only drop to the ground and lay in silence as the wind catches and takes them away. It's beautiful and sad all at the same time.
I wonder why it happens like this? I wonder why the leaves that are so beautiful and so vibrant and so full of color and wonder must fall to the ground and blow off in the wind? Maybe it's to make way for another beautiful season that is to come? Maybe it's to break up the seasonal monotony? Maybe it's a God's way of replenishing and restoring His earth? A global grooming so to speak. I like the idea of the latter :)
Whether we're in the blooming of our spring-like days or transitioning in the solstice of our fall or winter, it's still appropriate to live in full color and live it out loud. Winter, Spring, Summer, Fall...all very different, all very colorful, all very whimsical in their own way. Each season giving off it's own feeling and texture to the life it brings. These seasons bring forth a tapestry that weaves into our daily lives and brings forth a beautiful pattern with its very own color wheel...we are so intricately diverse and complex, yet with each diversity and complexity comes a beauty that is simply outstanding!
Gone is the Spring where the colors were bright and new and crisp. The heat of the Summer is gone and now the changing of the leaves gives way to burned oranges and yellow-greens and rusts and sienna. All these beautiful colors will all burst for a short time to only drop to the ground and lay in silence as the wind catches and takes them away. It's beautiful and sad all at the same time.
I wonder why it happens like this? I wonder why the leaves that are so beautiful and so vibrant and so full of color and wonder must fall to the ground and blow off in the wind? Maybe it's to make way for another beautiful season that is to come? Maybe it's to break up the seasonal monotony? Maybe it's a God's way of replenishing and restoring His earth? A global grooming so to speak. I like the idea of the latter :)
Whether we're in the blooming of our spring-like days or transitioning in the solstice of our fall or winter, it's still appropriate to live in full color and live it out loud. Winter, Spring, Summer, Fall...all very different, all very colorful, all very whimsical in their own way. Each season giving off it's own feeling and texture to the life it brings. These seasons bring forth a tapestry that weaves into our daily lives and brings forth a beautiful pattern with its very own color wheel...we are so intricately diverse and complex, yet with each diversity and complexity comes a beauty that is simply outstanding!
I'm never short of amazed at the differences we all hold. It's like we are all a mosaic. We in our own selves come to this blank canvas full of different colors, shapes, sizes, patterns, textures and piece ourselves one with another, knowingly or not, together to form a mass art structure that can stand alone or melt together to be something so spectacular that it's just breathtaking!
Enjoy the pictures and remember that this season will pass very quickly with all of its beautiful and warm colors, but what you do today in this season can stand for years to come!
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Tuesday, October 12, 2010
Refreshing
When you think of the word "refreshing," what do you think of? First thing I think of is a cool glass of water. The way it hits my mouth and cools me all the way down my throat and into my stomach. Sometimes, when the water is cold enough, it feels cool into my stomach. It's just a good feeling. Thirsty, then you're suddenly satisfied and quenched. Well, I'm talking about the same only different...not literally thirsty for water and not literally quenched in body.
The mind and soul and heart are all thirsty and in need of refreshment. When we're all bogged down and take on all the cares without the time to get a reprieve, you become emotionally de-hydrated and it can even lead to other things that will definately do you harm. I try to take every day individually and find something, even if it's the littlest thing, that will bring a smile to my face, a sweet memory to mind, a favorite song, the feeling of the sun hitting my face, not too warm, not too cool, just a soothing feeling that makes me feel like I'm really not alone in this world. Sometimes, God sends us people along our way to make us feel welcome in this world too. Grab a hold of the one little thing that will make you feel good and don't let it go. It may be the one thing that gets you through the day or night.
I'm sitting here with Jim Brickman playing in the background, a hot cup of coffee with my favorite seasonal creamer and looking over at a lit candle that's filling my space with a wonderful aroma of pumpkin and spices. Not the most exciting thing happening in the world, but in my world, it's A-okay!
Until the next blog, take time to not only see the beauty around you, but take it into yourself and let it soothe your soul. You may be surprised to realize that something so very small can make a huge impact on your heart and mind!
The mind and soul and heart are all thirsty and in need of refreshment. When we're all bogged down and take on all the cares without the time to get a reprieve, you become emotionally de-hydrated and it can even lead to other things that will definately do you harm. I try to take every day individually and find something, even if it's the littlest thing, that will bring a smile to my face, a sweet memory to mind, a favorite song, the feeling of the sun hitting my face, not too warm, not too cool, just a soothing feeling that makes me feel like I'm really not alone in this world. Sometimes, God sends us people along our way to make us feel welcome in this world too. Grab a hold of the one little thing that will make you feel good and don't let it go. It may be the one thing that gets you through the day or night.
I'm sitting here with Jim Brickman playing in the background, a hot cup of coffee with my favorite seasonal creamer and looking over at a lit candle that's filling my space with a wonderful aroma of pumpkin and spices. Not the most exciting thing happening in the world, but in my world, it's A-okay!
Until the next blog, take time to not only see the beauty around you, but take it into yourself and let it soothe your soul. You may be surprised to realize that something so very small can make a huge impact on your heart and mind!
Friday, October 8, 2010
Silver Lining...
There's something to be said about closing one door and opening another. Seems that's all I've experiencing lately. Where one thing ends, another begins. It's true what they say, when something ends, and you think you're going to be crushed in the emotion of it all, another thing comes your way and the elation and relief far outweighs the pain you had felt.
Lots of things happen all the time. Why is it that we only notice those things that either hit us right between the eyes for the good or for the bad? What happens to all the other moments that happen in between? There's an entire world of things that go unseen and unnoticed and we're none the wiser. Why do we not notice the small simple things in life? Rays of sunlight that hit the sky with beautiful hues of pink and orange, but we don't see it...I digress, back to my thoughts.
I guess the transition between the now and the not yet is most emotionally treacherous in the process, but once you transition, you realize that breathing seems easier, sleep is more restful, your mood that was once so solemn is now suddenly much better...everything is suddenly brighter and more vivid than ever before.
I stop to think about things from the past and all of a sudden I don't remember all the things that pushed me away for all the good things that have come my way so far...and all the things that are coming for that matter. For once in a very long time I feel like there's a light at the end of the tunnel. Everything is finally lining up. It's like I've been holding my breath for a very long time and now I'm sucking in air like I've been oxygen deprived for ages.
Okay, so I'm sitting here wondering why I'm relaxing on the sofa and watching a movie without feeling the pressure to do anything else. I finally feel like I can exhale. One asks themselves when does the proverbial dark cloud get lifted from one's personal atmosphere? Well, there's no set time and there's no set date for this to happen. All I know is that when it happens, you feel a sudden burst of relief unlike anything you remember happening before. That's the space I occupy right now. I am just breathing taking this all in...too afraid to admit that I'm happy, too scared to forget that it cold be taken away in the blink of an eye...even at my own hands. Guess I shall wade in the still waters of my life right now and enjoy every minute of this wonderful place.
Lots of things happen all the time. Why is it that we only notice those things that either hit us right between the eyes for the good or for the bad? What happens to all the other moments that happen in between? There's an entire world of things that go unseen and unnoticed and we're none the wiser. Why do we not notice the small simple things in life? Rays of sunlight that hit the sky with beautiful hues of pink and orange, but we don't see it...I digress, back to my thoughts.
I guess the transition between the now and the not yet is most emotionally treacherous in the process, but once you transition, you realize that breathing seems easier, sleep is more restful, your mood that was once so solemn is now suddenly much better...everything is suddenly brighter and more vivid than ever before.
I stop to think about things from the past and all of a sudden I don't remember all the things that pushed me away for all the good things that have come my way so far...and all the things that are coming for that matter. For once in a very long time I feel like there's a light at the end of the tunnel. Everything is finally lining up. It's like I've been holding my breath for a very long time and now I'm sucking in air like I've been oxygen deprived for ages.
Okay, so I'm sitting here wondering why I'm relaxing on the sofa and watching a movie without feeling the pressure to do anything else. I finally feel like I can exhale. One asks themselves when does the proverbial dark cloud get lifted from one's personal atmosphere? Well, there's no set time and there's no set date for this to happen. All I know is that when it happens, you feel a sudden burst of relief unlike anything you remember happening before. That's the space I occupy right now. I am just breathing taking this all in...too afraid to admit that I'm happy, too scared to forget that it cold be taken away in the blink of an eye...even at my own hands. Guess I shall wade in the still waters of my life right now and enjoy every minute of this wonderful place.
Monday, September 27, 2010
Fall colors
I was able to away from the everyday hustle and bustle of my area and go to a rural small town where they had a harvest fest. There were so many things for they eye to see! Lots of crafty goods and live animals and, oh yes, there was funnel cake! I saw live goats, baby pigs, miniature horses and lots and lots of people everywhere. I enjoyed the homemade potato pockets filled with mashed potatoes. YUM!
Getting around there is like getting around to all my favorites. I visited a market that serves my favorite soup every Friday, stuffed green pepper soup. I visited a surplus store and picked up a few things. All in all, it was relaxing and very beautiful there. The leaves were just beginning to change and all you could see along the mountain sides were trees with leaves just beginning to turn all shades of yellow, light green, red, coral, all beautiful hues of the most wonderful sunset.
There wasn't anything I missed that I wanted to do. I hit every one of my favorite things to do, see, and eat and enjoyed every decadent moment!
Chloe waited at home for me. I missed her a lot, but when I got home, she was waiting there with lots of licks and snuggles to share with me :)
Today, it's raining and the breeze coming in the house is still so refreshing despite the gray clouds and the raindrops pelting lightly over my head on the skylites. Today is the kind of day that makes you want to curl in a cozy blanket and watch hallmark movies and drink spiced coffee on the sofa with your best friend.
While I sit here sharing, I look out the window and see the trees across the way already starting to change at the caps, Chloe laying on her favorite crocheted blankie sleeping peacefully, and I can hear the rain softly falling on the roof above my head. It's a quiet symphony right outside my window as I watch the wind moving the trees from side to side in a sort of woodland waltz. It's truly beautiful and peaceful where I sit.
The beginning of fall, my second favorite season! Second to it's opposite, spring. I guess I'm a sucker for colors! I love the colors of the spring, the bright greens and yellows and how the flowers burst forth with blooming. In the same regard, there's fall with its burned oranges, corals, rusts and the falling leaves and sweater weather. Hot mulled cider and pumpkin patches and apple orchards for kids of all ages to enjoy. I don't know which I love best, but I do know I love the feeling I get when the wind blows as it kisses my cheeks.
Don't forget to find the color in your day and remember to soak it in!
Getting around there is like getting around to all my favorites. I visited a market that serves my favorite soup every Friday, stuffed green pepper soup. I visited a surplus store and picked up a few things. All in all, it was relaxing and very beautiful there. The leaves were just beginning to change and all you could see along the mountain sides were trees with leaves just beginning to turn all shades of yellow, light green, red, coral, all beautiful hues of the most wonderful sunset.
There wasn't anything I missed that I wanted to do. I hit every one of my favorite things to do, see, and eat and enjoyed every decadent moment!
Chloe waited at home for me. I missed her a lot, but when I got home, she was waiting there with lots of licks and snuggles to share with me :)
Today, it's raining and the breeze coming in the house is still so refreshing despite the gray clouds and the raindrops pelting lightly over my head on the skylites. Today is the kind of day that makes you want to curl in a cozy blanket and watch hallmark movies and drink spiced coffee on the sofa with your best friend.
While I sit here sharing, I look out the window and see the trees across the way already starting to change at the caps, Chloe laying on her favorite crocheted blankie sleeping peacefully, and I can hear the rain softly falling on the roof above my head. It's a quiet symphony right outside my window as I watch the wind moving the trees from side to side in a sort of woodland waltz. It's truly beautiful and peaceful where I sit.
The beginning of fall, my second favorite season! Second to it's opposite, spring. I guess I'm a sucker for colors! I love the colors of the spring, the bright greens and yellows and how the flowers burst forth with blooming. In the same regard, there's fall with its burned oranges, corals, rusts and the falling leaves and sweater weather. Hot mulled cider and pumpkin patches and apple orchards for kids of all ages to enjoy. I don't know which I love best, but I do know I love the feeling I get when the wind blows as it kisses my cheeks.
Don't forget to find the color in your day and remember to soak it in!
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